You’re stressed out. You’ve been working hard, the economy is in the tank, and the cold weather is getting on your nerves. You want to indulge in the simple pleasures of life. You imagine yourself sneaking away in the late afternoon and arriving in a candle-lit room, sensuous music playing, and the heater on full-blast. A soft, comfy bed beckons. You breathe a sigh of relief and there she is… Finally you get to be with the lovely, mellow and friendly girl you’ve been thinking about all week. She doesn’t have a care in the world and she is really happy to see you. She is sincere and genuine and knows how to treat you like the pleasant and enthusiastic man that you are. You harbor no worries, you’ve checked around and everybody agrees: she is great fun to be with. Relaxed and happy, you leave. You pause for a moment and think, “Wow, was it really just that easy?”